Boundaries at work/with work are good for you.
You can love your work and have boundaries. I’d argue that having boundaries can make it easier to love your work.
Boundaries at work can look like saying no to projects you know you don’t have the bandwidth to complete.
Boundaries can look like not staying late or coming in early or over the weekends.
Boundaries can look like telling co-workers or managers when they say something that makes you uncomfortable or offends you.
Boundaries can look like expecting people to value your work outcomes and respecting your knowledge.
It’s important to start setting your boundaries early on. It’s much easier to have boundaries from the beginning than to try to walk people back to your boundaries after you’ve let them get away with disrespecting them.
I used to have a job where I kept volunteering to stay late to get the job done for the team and before I knew it I was expected to stay late to get the job done. It snuck up on me. I agreed to take phone calls on the weekend and then I was always expected to take phone calls on the weekends and early in the am during the week. By the time I had enough and started letting people know I had enough and I couldn’t work like that anymore (years later) I was the bad guy.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t work hard, you should work however you want to-just have boundaries.